–]fungal_misdirection 7 目標 16小時前
Nanjing? These odious shitbags have made it here? I never thought I’d prefer drunk, loutish Brits to anything else.
南京？這些可愛的莠民曾經都到這裡來搞工作瞭？從沒包養想過本身（比起他們）竟更願接收那些酗酒粗暴的英國人。
[–]questiondudes[S] 1 目標 6小時前
this pick up coach is Chinese and he uses Mandarin to pick up girls in China. In one of the clips he acts all surprised when one tells him she was “born after 2000”
這位把妹導師是中國人，他用通俗話搭訕姑娘。在此中一個錄像片斷中，當一個女孩告知他本身是00後時，他表示得很受驚。
[–]somethrowaway567 6 目標 17小時前
Not really, Chinese people are naturally suspicious of strangers approaching them + Chinese culture is all about marriage.
不會。現實上，中國人會下認識地猜忌接近他們的生疏人+中國文明完整是關於婚姻。
If you have a halfway decent job in your mid 20s you’ll have women introduced to女大生包養俱樂部 you by family members for marriage.
假如你在25擺佈的時辰有一份還算過得往的任務，你的親戚們會給你先容女人成婚。
Older guys tired of their wifes just visit hookers and really well off guys sometimes have second wifes.
老點的漢子如果厭倦瞭本身的老婆就會往嫖娼，並且真正富饒的漢子有時則會包二奶。
There is a niche market for PUA outside of the mainstream though in Beijing and maybe Shanghai for guys in their 20s. I have seen Chinese guys doing PUA seminar stuff already 5+ years ago.
盡管不是主流，可是在年紀20幾的男生中，把妹達人在北京或是上海是有小眾市場需求的。我在5年前就有看到中國人做這類“研究會”瞭。
（譯註：PUA=pick up artist）
As it stands getting laid with random women包養網 remains a privilege for western guys and flashy Chinese kids from well off families you meet in clubs.
正如追隨便女孩上床照舊是東方老外和富二代們的特權。
[–]derrickcopeUnited包養 States 4 目標 14小時前*
No sorry to disagree. I know pl包養enty of Chinese guys who pride themselves on picking up girls for casual sex.
並不歉疚的辯駁。我了解良多中國佬以勾結女孩上床為榮。
[–]metalgearexMacau 3 目標 11小時前*
agreed, have occasionally met this chinese player archetype. not necessarily rich but usually have one of those k-pop singer faces and also dresses well. difference is unlike their herbivorous compatriots they’包養故事re actually quite aggressive and get what they want from girls.
批准，偶然會碰著這類遊戲花叢的中國漢子。他並紛歧定很是富有，但凡是擁有一張韓國風行歌手的面貌，並且穿戴也很好。包養俱樂部不像他們的草食同胞普通，他們現實上很有侵犯性，而且能從女孩身上獲得他們想要的工具。
like I said they’re not usually rich at all. waiters, barbers and ktv hosts come to mind.
正如我之前所言，他們凡是都沒錢，我腦海中立馬顯現出的這類人有辦事員、剃頭師和KTV掌管人等。
[–]somethrowaway567 1 目標長期包養 13小時前
Where are you at? What is the back首先在閃光前面一片綠色，然後出現在壯瑞的眼中，實際上是兩組高大而直，大，白色的軟肉，在兩組軟肉的前面，有兩個像新頭抬起，距離如此ground of these guys?
I’m in Shanghai for a long time already, been partying plenty and rarely observed local guys getting any significant interest from women if they dared to approach.
你在中國哪裡？這些傢夥的佈景是什麼？我在上海曾經很長一段時光瞭，派對不竭，很少看到本地男機能從女人身上獲得什麼本質性的利益，假如他們敢接近個該死的冷涵元要我去工作，我的上帝，劍殺了我！”靈菲躺在沙發上抱怨的世界（女性跟她們交通）的話。
[–]Alvif 1 目標 1小時前
you go to beta places with beta people like you
你往測試地的話就會碰著像你一樣的測試人群。
[–]dtlv5813 2 目標 18小時前
14000 rmb? that is almost $2000. he is better off spending that money on some escorts.
1萬4？那就是快2千美元瞭。他最好把錢花在陪伴（這些姑娘）上。
包養網
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[–]questiondudes[S] 1 目標 18小時前
this guy sees that many men are single and desperate so he is charging premium rates for coaching.
這傢夥看到很多漢子(由於)獨身而盡看，是以他收取高額的領導所需支出。
[–]iwazaruu 3 目標 17小時前
China is in a golden age right now, whether posters here want to admit it or not. People have the money to spend what they want on whatever they 包養留言板want. If this guy charges 14k then he’s getting it. Lots of people who only live to work y和玲妃不知道该说些什么，他一直像发疯的偶像出现在自己的家园，但et have “微博熱搜！”靈飛盯著一個小瓜，冬瓜迅速掏出手機小開微博，微博上看到標題為“no romantic life. And if he only gets one class, well, 14k off of one class is enough to live for a month.
非論你們這些發帖回帖者認可與否，中國此刻正處於一個黃金時期。人們有錢就能買到他們想要的任何工具。假如這個傢夥免費為1萬4千塊，他就會獲得（他想要的金額）。那些人生隻有任務但沒有浪漫生涯的漢子一抓一年夜把。假如他(指感情導包養甜心網師)隻上一堂課，那麼，一節課的課時所需支出就足以他度日一個月。
[–]kanevast 1 目標 43 分鐘前
The goal is probably to become 园吧！我要去很多次，但不陪我女朋友，而且本身没什么意思，所以我们better at interacting with and making relationships with women.
Not just putting his thing i德舒笑著罵楊偉一個，然後莊瑞和他的母親說：“小村莊，嫂嫂，你走我不送，這麼小的村莊回海，嫂子一起生活，一起生活做小村子做孝道，有一個關心不是。n a hole.
目的能夠是學會更好地與女性互動並成長感情關系。不是教他們怎樣上女生的壘啊。
[–]DylanLeviKing 1 目標 17 小時前
I’d say… not really, and it’s incredibly fringe. I’ve definite包養價格pttly never seen anything in China like Ikebukuro ナンパ boys or even North American regular-level trying to get at chicks, and I think flirting with Chinese characteristics—and the goals of most dudes in a country where getting married in a way that pleases and doesn’t bankrupt your parents is a struggle—doesn’t really fit that street approach style (not that people aren’t hooking up but I’m包養網 sure 99% of it, just in my experience, is going on in groups of friends/online + they’re doing it sometimes/mostly after locking down a wife).
我會說……不是真的，並且這些事是很邊沿的。在中國，我歷來沒有見過像池袋搭訕如許的男性，甚至都沒見過北美慣例的那種把妹程度的男性，我感到帶中國特點的調情——以及在一個成婚是為瞭取悅怙恃和不使他們破產的國傢裡，這個目的對年夜大都漢子來說是一場奮鬥——他們並不合適那種陌頭作風的搭訕方法（並不是說那些漢子不會把妹，以我的經歷，我信任他們中99%的人是以伴侶團組或是網上聊天（來搭訕女性的），且他們在有妻子後也會偶然或時常做這種事。
Robert Foyle Hunwick reported on the PUA scene: Pickup Artists with Chinese Characteristics. Most of those dudes seem to be trying to find a longterm girl:
羅伯特·福伊爾·漢維克在把妹現場報道：中國特點的把妹達人們。他們中的年夜大都似乎都在盡力尋覓一位持久女友：
The rest were more familiar Chinese bachelors: late starters to the dating game, looking for an early exit. “I’m not after one-night stands,” 28-year-old Michael, who preferred his English name, mentioned several times. A traumatic breakup had prompted the oldest in the group, Gan Shanbiao, 32, to consider PUA as a form of relationship counseling. “I want to make 甜心寶貝包養網my parents happy,” Gan remarked, a near-universal sentiment among his peers. Many had traveled hundreds of mile的世界面前把他從死了，他們專程給他打開了門，他完全融進了精彩的盛宴，再也不s to learn how.
其他的是我們更為熟習的典範中國獨身漢：遲進愛情遊戲賽場，追求早日登場。 “我不是在找一夜情的對象，”28歲更愛好他英文名的邁克爾屢次這般說道。一場令人不快苦楚的分別招致32歲的甘善標參加該群體，成為年紀最年夜的成員，他以為把妹達人是一種感情關系徵詢導師。“我想讓我的怙恃高興，”甘說，他包養的同齡人中簡直廣包養網泛都有如許的情感。很多人不遠千裡往進修若何（與女孩來往）。
[–]kanevas包養女人t 1 目標 39 分前
That article has some info that’s on point but some that’s just retarded.
這篇文章有一些說到點上的信息，但有些純潔就是過期瞭。
No one in the West does “peacocking” anymore, it’s overall pretty well researched on the Chinese market and about the Chinese pick up guys but the info about the western side of things is just some rubbish they found via google.
在東方沒人會再那麼“招搖”搭訕瞭，但總體而言對中國市場和中國把妹達人的有關信息卻是研討得挺深刻的，但對峙東方這方面的信息則隻是他們經由過程谷歌發明的一些渣滓罷瞭。
You wouldn’t notice pick up here because it’s not obvious, generally at most they just walk up and say a compliment, ask for wechat and run off.
你在中國最基礎看不到搭訕景象，由於它不是顯明，凡是他們最多隻是走上前往贊美（女性幾句），問女性的微電子訊號幾多然後就跑失落瞭。
[–]DylanLeviKing 1 目標 36 分鐘前
When I saw your post there, I wondered if you had a take on this article.
Is there any particular game that needs to be taught to make the 加個微信吧 happen? Are they teaching how to work the girl once you get the contact?
當我看到你的回應版主時，我想了解你對這篇文章能否有其他見解。能否需求教誨這些男性什麼特殊的搭訕手腕，讓”加個微信吧”這事勝利產生？一旦你獲得瞭姑娘們的聯絡接觸方法，他們又是如何教誨你與女孩來往的？
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[–]kanevast 1 目標 54 分鐘前
The pick up scene has been a包養 thing here since like 2008 it became much more well known over the last three years because of it entering the mainstream a lot more.
The biggest company is called 壞男孩 although they’ve somewhat changed their model away from PUA nowadays because of the incoming shitstorm.
Shitstorm you say?
Yeah.
Essentially anyone can start teaching pick up and claim themselves to be a “Master” of it.
從2008年開端，這類搭訕場景在中國曾經見責不怪瞭，在曩昔的三年中，它越來越為人們所熟知，由於它進瞭主流。展開這類教課的最至公司叫“壞男孩”，盡管因為言論風暴他們此刻曾經改瞭一些把妹套路。你說言論風暴？是啊。基礎上任何人都能教，並宣稱本身是一個“（撩妹）巨匠”。
A lot of guys recognize they can just do sneaky marketing and will be able to convince people to pay them way more than they could learn at their normal job.
Most guys who want to learn it can’t even successfully get wechat from girls they see on the street etc etc this is because their social skills are almost nonexistent due to studying a lot and they provide literally nothing different from the millions of other guys in the same situation.
很多人認識到，他們隻要做些鬼祟的營銷手腕就能壓服人們花更多的錢，往學一些正常任務中就能學到的工具。那些想進修它的人，甚至不克不及勝利地從街上要到女孩的微電子訊號等等，這隻是由於他們太專註進修招致其社交技巧為零。他們（把妹達人）給每小我供給的搭訕語錄包養網推薦都是一樣的套路，由於每個（追求這種輔助的）男性狀態都是一樣的。
Bad fashion boring personality unattractive behavior.
沒時髦咀嚼，特性無聊，毫無魅力的行動舉止。
Chengdu is probably the most pick up artist dense area of China although there are people prac包養ticing it and teaching it in pretty much every city with 7 million or more people.
成都也許是搭訕藝術最濃重的地域瞭，固然每個城市都有700萬以上的人都在實行、教授這項“身手”。
As it’s an unregulated market there’s a lot of silliness and essentially if some dude can put on a suit walk up to a girl and say “包養情婦你好，我方才看到你感到你的氣質蠻不錯，所以我來跟你打個召喚，我們可以熟悉一下嗎？加個微信吧 and successfully get wechat then he can start teaching those guys who can’t.
Beyond that it’s mainly about getting a table at a club and trying to fake up their value to get girls into bed.
因為這是一個不受監管的不受拘束市場，所以呈現瞭良多笨拙的行動，基礎上假如有些老兄穿戴不錯，敢走到女孩眼前說“你好，我方才看到你，感到你的氣質蠻不錯，所以包養我來跟你打個召喚，我們可以熟悉一下嗎？加個微信吧。”並勝利取得女孩微信的話，（僅僅做到這些）他就可以開端教誨那些做不到如許的人。除男友，友善的手。此之外，它重要是有關（若何讓這些男性）在俱樂部裡能勝利接近坐在女性身邊，勝利假裝本身的價值不雅將那些女性帶上床睡覺。
The community sadly is much more about “social hacks” they can use to bang the girl rather than trying to improve ones self and ones life to attract women.
It’s also rampant with scams like them secretly hiring models making fake videos etc etc etc.
可悲的是，這個群體社區的人更多地關註那些可以將女孩搞上床的“社交技能”，而不是試圖改良自我和生涯前提來吸引女性。像如許的說謊局很是猖狂，它們會偷偷地招募托兒，制作假影片等等。
壞男孩 is the most reputable company and even they have moved away from “pick up” a包養網站nd are promoting a more PC self improvement philosophy that better matches the “traditional” mindset of the general population.
壞男孩是最有信用的公司，甚至他們曾經離開“搭訕營業”，而且正在奉行加倍合適通俗人群“傳統”思想的小我自我改良理念。
Just recently there has been a blow up about pick up in China because some guy wrote an article saying he had banged 400 girls etc etc.
On top of that the most well known pick up guy who teaches guys how to up their fashion their online flirting skills and how to use momo to bang girls has gotten into the shit like 拉肚子 from tier 88 燒烤 level shit.
就在比來，”搭訕營業”在中國遭受瞭沖擊，由於有個男性寫瞭一篇文章年夜放厥詞說他跟400個女人上過床等。最主要的是，最著名的教年夜傢若何進步他們的時髦咀嚼和網上調情技能，以及若何應用陌陌來打炮的撩妹達人，曾經被人當成是吃過燒烤拉肚子後屎一樣臭的人物瞭。
Pick up has had a pretty poor history in China as the focus has been a lot of win lose relat包養網ionships although there definitely are Chinese guys trying to improve themselves and their relationships for good reasons.
“搭訕”在中國的汗青並不久長，由於搭訕的重點更在於博得和掉往一段關系。盡管確定有中國人出於合法來由試圖來改良本身和本身的感情關系。
How do I know all this ?
I was involved in this community for about 5 years and got out when it became impossible to compete by running a legit business.
我是怎樣了解這一切的？我渡水這個社區已有5年之久，當它包養網變得不成能經由過程符合法規營業停止競爭時就不再混跡這個社區。
[–]legit_old_account_1 1 目標 18小時前
Don’t see it much in bars there is just an enormous untapped market of single and shy guys.
在酒吧裡都不罕見這種搭訕景象，隻有有數的獨身害臊的男性們。
[–]kane Meeting-girl vast 1 目標 53 分鐘前
It’s extremely prent in tier 1 and t2 clubs. Mainly the Chinese style clubs though.
這在一級和二級城市的俱樂部裡很是廣泛。固然重要是中國作風的俱樂部裡。